Dating vs courting
And it is my conviction that the wordly system of dating, as it is currently conducted by most people, is far from God's original plan, as described in the Bible.
I intend to expose the flaws I see in today's dating model, and at the same time point out how Biblical courtship addresses these flaws.
Unfortunately, however, our culture teaches our singles to engage in multiple dating relationships as though it were a normal and useful practise.
The truth is, the modern dating system has only been around for less than a century.
The current model that we are using is ineffective, at best. Dating was invented in the early part of this century.
If you were to ask me several years ago to give you a rundown of courtship vs dating I would have easily pulled out my notes and let it rip.
But the more I read online, the more I’ve seen that (at least in Christian circles) courtship and dating mean different things to different people.
If you feel “right” together, if you’re having fun, if there’s passion and pleasure, then it must be a good relationship.
But if this is the foundation of a relationship, commitment is often trumped by chemistry and loyalty is often replaced with lust.
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Courtship crashed back onto the cultural landscape in a big way several years ago when Joshua Harris wrote the book These are good parameters. The heart of courtship is the notion that you won’t just date for fun but will pursue romance with marriage as an end goal. First Corinthians tells us to flee from sexual immorality. Limiting time alone is a great way to run from the temptation to get overly physical.